Attract And Seduce Women

When is the right time to attract and seduce women? Sooner rather than later you need to find out if she is sexually attracted to you.

The longer you wait to escalate, the more she will see you as a serious relationship and make you wait for sex or you could find out too late that she doesn't find you sexually attractive and just wants to be friends..

How To Touch On The First Date

As the man you have to control the physical escalation when you attract and seduce women.

During your first date you need to touch her in a way that is both playful and flirty. Refrain from touching in a direct way the main erogenous zones, the breasts and the genital area.

While you are talking to her, lightly touch her arms, if you are crossing the street, grab her hand to walk her over then let go.

I think any extended holding of hands should be avoided as it is part of the body language of a relationship as boyfriend; girlfriend.

The idea is to get her used to you touching her.

I have found from personal experience that if I come across as too eager or too keen on the 1st date, it tends to backfire and I don't get to the 2nd encounter. If you stick to touching and kissing at the level of teasing to attract and seduce women... it will create more attraction.

Try this: If things start to get a little hot between you, be the first to back off and say something like this... "I think we're getting a little too hot and moving too fast" ... tease her... make her wait for it.

Setting Up The 2ND Encounter

Your ultimate aim is for you and her to feel comfortable in enjoying each others physical company. As the man, you need to lead her to that place. To attract and seduce women there is no point in escalating sexual contact unless you are alone together with no other distractions.

For the 2nd date invite her over to your pad for dinner and a movie. Invite her in a commanding way, don't ask, tell her.

Say something like this...

"I want you to come over Friday night for dinner and a movie... what's your favorite food?"

She will either agree to it or not. If you have created enough attraction, she will say yes... but if she says no. Don't be discouraged there may be many reasons for this and nothing to do with her not wanting you. You should always have a strong mindset that she DOES want you.

You can then say...

"OK... maybe some other time.. is there something else you would prefer to do?"

If she says YES... That's good! Organize the 2nd date around an activity you both like to do.

You may get to the physical part with her on the 2nd date if it goes well. You just never know when a woman is ready. Remember.... your a guy, your ALWAYS ready!

I've always found that women will agree to dinner and a movie on the 2nd or 3rd date.

The Final Escalation

If a woman is coming around to YOUR place, getting physical with her is a done deal. Unless you do something or say something to change her mind 99% of the time she has already decided, it's up to you to lead her to it.

Ideas on what to do... coming soon!

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